Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Life Flies By!

I was laying in bed and I couldn't get to sleep. It is really hot in our house and we hate running the AC. I am amazed at how fast time flies. We have been married almost ten years and our kids are all growing up. I feel at times that life is just going and I wish I could stop life and just hang out for a while. It reminds me of a Greg Brown song, "Spring Wind".

I lived awhile without you, darn near half my life. I no longer see our unborn children, born to you my lovely wife. But yesterday I had a vision, beneath the tree where we once talked, of an old couple burning their love letters so their children won't be shocked. Love calls like the wild birds-- it's another day. A Spring wind blew my list of things to do...away. My friends are gettin older, so I guess I must be too. Without their loving kindness, I don't know what I'd do. Oh the wine bottle's half empty-- the money's all spent. And we're a cross between our parents and hippies in a tent. Children go to sleep now-- you know it's gettin' late. I know you don't like to miss nothin' and school ain't that great. Oh, I'll dance with you when you're happy, and hold you when you're sad, and hope you know how glad I am, just to be you're Dad. Darlin' it's been a hard go but I think we'll be okay. I know I say that all the time like everything else I say. Oh, I've been gone so often, but every time I miss you, and I don't really know nothin', Except I like to kiss you.
I wish I was as poetic as Greg Brown but I am glad I don't look like him

Back to the family, we went camping a couple of weeks ago and we are ready to go again it was so nice to get away!Miriam and Eli. Poor Liza having her face all squeezed!

Tyler and Leia. She was so grumpy on this trip!

Leia was especially grumpy when we hiked!

We had chili and Leia had two bowls at the sa me time.

We went with some neighbors. Miriam and Shelby and Shelby's new little baby.

Eli strikes a pose.

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Elijah David Bastian's Baptism

The little Bastian family.
Handsome Eli
Eli was baptized this weekend! He was so excited. The day turned out wonderful. My favorite part was when he asked Tyler if he could do it again as soon as they got out of the water! I wish they could stay this innocent and young forever.
Eli and his proud sister, Leia!

Eli is so handsome in his new suite and tie! He is definately a lady killer.
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Sunday, June 22, 2008

Oops.











I am not as good at this blogging thing as I should be I have fired myself and will soon have a replacement. We have had a busy time and we haven't posted any of it. Here are some photos of what we have been up to.
We went to Boston and Leia was a flower girl at Jen Miriam's cousin's wedding. It was a wonderful trip and we had so much fun with all the cousins out East.
Leia graduated from preschool. Eli and Leia were in their first play , "The Wizard of Oz." and Leia has turned five. Eli has also had a birthday and he will be baptized on the fifth of July! Luke is doing well in Spain he completed a year in May and we are excited that he is out but will be happy to have him home. Leia and Eli had a big piano recital and they both did great! it was Leia's first recital ever. We have been busy!

Saturday, November 17, 2007

Luke's Mission Pictures











Luke Finally sent us some pictures from his Mission. I would put captions and explain what is going on but I have no idea! We are lucky enough just to get photos and don't want to push it for captions.

Monday, November 12, 2007

News

Leia with her infamous bed head is doing great. She had a wonderful Halloween as a witch. Eli debuted as a rock star and looked very much the part! He continues to practice and play piano and is starting to gain a small following of avid listeners.
All in all we are doing well. We recently painted the house and have mixed reviews. Tyler isn't done yet there is still one more color to add but that may not be done until Spring. the first photo is the before and the second is the obvious after.

Monday, October 8, 2007

Honduras Trip


I made it safely home. I was amazed at how much the Country had changed. The change was not so pronounced outside of the capitol as it was right in Tegucigalpa. When I got to Honduras I met a guy that was traveling in Honduras that also came from Utah. We walked around the capitol city for the day and looked for the mission office. We finally found it and then went and checked out the progress on the Temple that is being built. http://www.ldschurchtemples.com/tegucigalpa/
We then went and got something to eat at a "Mall" by the hotel. I was blown away to be in a mall in Honduras. When I was there ten years ago there was nothing of the sort. Now they say there are five malls in the city. I slept that night on the floor of the hotel. The next morning Nerry Rodriguez picked me up and I went and stayed with them and visited for a couple of hours. I then caught a bus and headed to Siguatepeque to look for the man who had been building a helicopter. The bus ride was crazy and it brought back a whole bunch of memories. I began again to see the poverty that I had grown so accustomed to when I lived there. When I first got to Honduras in 1996 there was very little culture shock. I expected poverty and I got it. Within weeks I sat wherever I could, sometimes on beds that had probably never had the sheets changed. I began to not see anything but the people. I didn't care that they were poor. It was easy to love them and see past the conditions that some of them lived in. The hardest part of the whole experience ten years ago was not the culture shock of arriving but the cultural shock of going home and seeing the way we live in the US. As I drove around again on this trip those same feelings flooded back into my heart and mind and at times I just wanted to cry. I had all but forgotten the adobe one room houses the kids playing in the dirt streets. The men gathering wood and the ever present smell of burning fires that they all cooked on. I loved being back and I took in all the sights and sounds of the three hour bus ride.
When I got to Siguatepeque I was tired. I grabbed a taxi and told him to take me to the nicest hotel. He charged me $1.50, a rip off according to the locals, and dropped me off at Angelitos Hotel. It seemed nice enough so I paid my $4.00 and went to check out my room. It was small but nice. I grabbed some dinner and mingled with the loiterers outside the Hotel. I had a picture of the Helicopter man so I took my chances and asked the half-way to drunk men if they knew him. The first man said he didn't but that he was new to the town. He called over a young guy that owned a small store adjacent to the hotel.
"Yeah, I knew him, but he died seven years ago." My heart sank.
"Please are you sure?" I questioned. "Let me check." He made a few calls the first two affirming that they too thought he was dead. The third however clarified the scenario. The guy who died seven years ago had not made the helicopter but was related to the inventor. The Helicopter man lived up the street and was very much alive. I made plans to meet him again in the morning and he would take me to his house. I went to bed very content.
The hotel had a policy that if I had know about I would have sought shelter elsewhere. At eleven they closed the hotel door which was a large garage like door and then they padlocked it. Well at about twelve AM someone decided that they belonged in the hotel. So they began to try and remove the padlock with a hammer. I was terrified someone pounded the door and I was sure they were coming for me. I got dressed in case I needed a quick get away and I layed there staring at the ceiling wondering what I had done. I could have gotten myself killed a lot closer to home than Honduras. I fell asleep to my life flashing before my eyes.
The next morning I was groggy but excited. I found my friend from the night before. I have to say he was a little more excited about the prospects of taking me on the errand the night before when he was drunk. It took some coaxing but we were off. As soon as we stopped in front of the house I recognized it. It hadn't changed. the house I had lived in was now a small store but his was exactly the same. We knocked and he instantly remembered me. He had again. I took a lot of pictures and then I walked back to the hotel stopping at some friends shop that made leather goods. I bought a belt and some tops for the kids and then got mys stuff from the hotel and jumped back on the bus. I haded back to the capitol and then on to El Paraiso. It was three hours back to the city, then four hours by bus to Danli a city close To El Paraiso. I got to Danli and with a little fear asked a Taxi to take me to the nicest Hotel. The is hotel was not as nice but I was relieved to find out it had an armed guard on duty twenty four-seven. I went to the closest Internet cafaged a lot and could no longer walk but there I was standing in front of him and the helicopter oncee and then paid $10.00 for more food than I should have ever attempted to eat. I went to bed tired and sick from eating too much.
The next morning I headed to El Paraiso. I was a little nervous. I was looking for a man named Eduardo Zelaya. I was afraid that I wouldn't find him. Well after about two hours I did find him and I knocked on the door. His wife answered and she was absolutely amazed. She let me in and I walked back to his small workshop behind his house. When he saw me he began to cry and he gave me a huge hug. It was so nice to see him. We spent the rest of the day visiting old friends and catching up. At about four pm it started raining. We rode around town on bikes as the town began to fill up with water. The streets turned to rivers and again I started wondering why I had traveled so far away from home to die. I missed the last bus out of town and had to hitch a ride in the back of a truck. It was pouring and after about an hour in the back of the wet truck I arrived back at the hotel. I went to bed without dinner. The next morning I headed back to the city. I spent my last day visiting friends in and around the city. I went to a barbecue outside the city in a small ranch, and visited with a lot of people. On man in particular was Carleni. I had baptized Carleni and his little brother Milton. Carleni was now married and had three little girls. Carleni and his family were preparing to go to the temple. Milton who was away, had served a mission in Guatemala. It was a wonderful way to finish my trip seeing that these two brothers had progressed. I flew home after I went to sacrament meeting that morning.

-Tyler